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Wear a topless cocktail or evening dress with bared breasts to a black tie event or a cruise

Poll closed Nov 12, 2020.
  1. Possibly if I was certain that many other ladies would be complying

    8 vote(s)
    12.1%
  2. No way would I consider it

    3 vote(s)
    4.5%
  3. For men. Would you allow your partner to wear the above

    17 vote(s)
    25.8%
  4. For men. Possibly if I was certain others would be complying

    21 vote(s)
    31.8%
  5. For men. No way would I consider it

    5 vote(s)
    7.6%
  6. For ladies. Definitely, would love it.

    12 vote(s)
    18.2%
  1. taniadaniels

    taniadaniels Porn Star

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    In order to assess the general view on whether topless dresses at formal 3vents would be accepted, I am asking both ladies and gentlemen to give their opinions. One vote each folks.
     
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    1. taniadaniels
      What an incredible result!

      Ladies. 20 voted and only 3 said NO. an 85% majority to bare breasts if others did it too.

      Men. 40 voted and only 5 said NO. an 87.5% majority for their wives to bare breasts if others did too.

      Total. 60 votes with 8 NO's = an 86.7% majority to bare!

      My suggestions have been therefore been well and truly vindicated - huge majorities in favor of baring breasts, hopefully in an elegant evening dress and if it was certain that others would do likewise.

      So come on you organisers of these formal events and dress designers - let's get cracking and get those topless dresses flowing!

      Maybe a similar poll in a popular daily newspaper would help too - as I realise this is a porn site and much more likely to vote yes - but at least it is a start.

      Tania
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 11, 2020
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      Final score - 66 voted.

      23 ladies with only 3 against.

      43 men with 5 against

      Pretty conclusive!
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 12, 2020
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  2. her_pob

    her_pob Porn Star

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    Most definitely would love to go to an event like this, I think it would be the most amazing event ever!
     
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  3. NCfan

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    Other than at a place where at least partial nudity is expected, no.
     
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    2. NCfan
      No it would not be appropriate for a black tie or cruise formal night. Just like sitting topless by the general swimming pool is not appropriate on a cruise that is not scheduled as a clothing optional cruise.
       
      NCfan, Nov 5, 2020
    3. taniadaniels
      What is appropriate would be to change the perception and acceptance of topless dresses among the general populace, the cruise lines on over eighteen cruises, including the fashion industry, the lawmakers and the minds of the people that breasts were not something to hide shamefully away, but to celebrate the beauty of them and yes, at a formal event both on land and at sea. The voting so far is showing a vast lead for this opinion. I realise this is a sex site and probably biased, but we have to start somewhere and from little acorns do great oak trees grow.
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 5, 2020
    4. NCfan
      I'm going to guess that this group doesn't represent the general population. You say over 18 cruises. I guess someone else would say, why shield the kids. There's always going to be a line.

      Men aren't going to dinner on formal night without shirts. Why should women? At a black tie event, men have to wear shirts and ties.
       
      NCfan, Nov 5, 2020
    5. taniadaniels
      If you have ever been to a formal event such as a ball or formal cruise night you may have noticed that ladies seldom wear shirts or ties, but mostly long evening dresses with plenty of low cut tops, which often show quite a lot of their breasts. My suggestion is to make the tops even lower to allow the whole of the breasts to be exposed.
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 5, 2020
    6. NCfan
      And I disagree on the need for this.
       
      NCfan, Nov 6, 2020
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  4. S83Suzuki

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    As a man, if others were going topless.. I'd encourage my wife to as well.. I love her being topless.
     
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  5. taniadaniels

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    My husband is the same, he loves showing me off, your wife is a lucky woman.
     
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  6. Hotwifevixen

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    My husband loves showing me off. While I have never went topless to a black tie event or out actually in public, I have very revealing dresses that I do wear without bras.
     
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  7. leatherlover

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    Same here, I love showing my wife off, she has really beautiful breasts. She has many sexy low cut dresses that she always wears without a bra. I think a topless formal event would be wonderful, and I am sure I could encourage my wife to go topless as long as I could assure her she would not be the only one.
     
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  8. NCfan

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    I love the guys who love "showing off" their wife like she's an object they own.
     
    1. taniadaniels
      I have visited your profile page and read all your negative comments on almost every post you have replied to - and I ask in all seriousness - what on Earth are you doing being on a sex site like xnxx?

      I suggest you find one called “Puritans forever” and agree with every post.
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 17, 2020
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  9. taniadaniels

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    Some interesting voting so far, and some interesting comments too - Keep 'em coming ladies and gentlemen, but try to be kind even if you disagree. - as I realise many of you will have different opinions, but being disrespectful and insulting only lessens your argument.
     
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  10. josephjdeluca

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    I know iI would be all in --- Most definitely would love to go to an event like this,
     
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  11. Dearelliot

    Dearelliot Porn Star

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    Many ladies approach that by wearing very revealing clothes. not unusual at all. I've been to places where ladies are bare breasted at parties carnivals, but not black tie formal
     
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  12. dnick47

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    The only real issue I see is that women's breast arouse males.
     
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  13. her_pob

    her_pob Porn Star

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    too funny - my ankles, my lips, my hands, my back, my....and so forth arouse my husband. you MEN! lol
     
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  14. UntouchedRed

    UntouchedRed Porn Surfer

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    The idea isn't bad if I had the assets to show off
     
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    1. taniadaniels
      My breasts were not fully developed when I was eighteen either, but they did grow eventually - let us hope that yours are slow developers and will soon blossom into a shapely pair.
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 6, 2020
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    2. Fun1898
      Don't worry about having larger assets to show off. You would get plenty of admirers the way you are now.
       
      Fun1898, Nov 6, 2020
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    3. UntouchedRed
      Thanks
       
      UntouchedRed, Nov 6, 2020
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  15. UntouchedRed

    UntouchedRed Porn Surfer

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    I hope so
     
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  16. curiousscouser

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    If it was a primarily sexual event where I was setting out to titillate then maybe - I'd be presenting myself for the male gaze with as much on show as I possibly could.

    The formal events I attend tend to be just that, formal. I wouldn't have my breasts out any more than I'd wear assless chaps or would expect to see men walking round with their balls hanging out.
    In fairness I do tend to avoid very low cut gowns because my ample chest makes them look tawdry, so I'm probably not representative of most women!
     
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    1. taniadaniels
      I requested votes and opinions both for and against and respect what you have said. Thank you for your input - and I hope you voted as you thought, as the whole idea of the poll is to discover the feelings of those that take part and discover the swell of feeling both for and against.
       
      taniadaniels, Nov 6, 2020
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    2. curiousscouser
      I did, it's not something I'd consider. I've no objection to whatever other women choose to wear, but I do think if it's ok for women to go to those events topless then men should be afforded the same freedom. Nothing at all to do with seeing a very handsome guy in formal trousers but his shirt unbuttoned to the navel of course:laugh:
       
      curiousscouser, Nov 6, 2020
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  17. 19CmDick

    19CmDick Porn Surfer

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    Being Around Topless Ladies Sounds Great
     
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  18. Cmonkeynutz

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    Attending a formal affair women should not go topless, just as men are required to wear certain attire, women should also be subject to a dress code. However, if the event is casual then it would be reasonable for the promoters to retain the option. Since the transition and acceptance of topless women would likely be met with formidable resistance. I think these events would not have notable attendance numbers to begin with. I' m a supporter of the notion of topless dresses, maybe not at a formal black tie event just yet. People's attitudes and perception need to adjust before I can see topless ever happening at a "formal" event
     
    1. taniadaniels
      As with all replies I welcome your input, but would like to point out that it has usually been these formal events where ladies usually decide to wear their splendid long evening dresses with deep plunging necklines that expose much more of their breasts than they normally show. Black tie and formal events are exactly the times they like to show themselves off as I often do - and I am always encouraged by my husband in this respect. All I am suggesting is that the 'plunging neckline' plunges much further, and becomes an accepted part of female formal attire for those who wish to embrace it and accentuate their femininity. Short mini skirts are accepted in normal life to show off bare legs and thighs, so why shouldn't low tops in evening wear reveal bare breasts, it's only another fashion idea to reveal the beauty of women.
       
      Last edited: Nov 7, 2020
      taniadaniels, Nov 7, 2020
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