Most of the women here probably like sex and don't have this problem. But from what I read, a lot of the men on here have wives or girlfriends who don't seem to be too fond of sex. I don't understand it. It feels good. Guys are willing to do most anything for us in order to get it. We get their undivided attention. So what's not to like? I can understand rare instances of physical or emotional issues getting in the way, but it seems like the average woman should like sex as much as men do. Unless of course you guys are just jerks.

 

Happily my 72 year old wife has loved sex with me for 50 years now and still gets dripping wet.

 

I don't think so many woman do dislike sex. My wife is one of those who doesn't want to have sex but I think that is perhaps different to not actually liking sex.

The why a woman might go off wanting to have sex is complicated and sadly that does seem to happen too often. I simply don't have a good answer because once you have taken away the obvious possible causes: A broken relationship, illness, drug abuse or perhaps plain old age, you aren't left with much to explain things.

As far as I am concerned it is a work in progress and when I find an answer which makes sense I will let you know.

I did come by this the other day, and I am sure there will be a number of you who, watching this, will be nodding the whole way through.

 

A few bitches do it as a punishment torture just as some men do too

 

People get complacent and bored in long term relationships and either cheat or give up trying.Then their partner gets low self esteem and feels like shit.But there is a solution,try something different.Most couples get into a sex routine,so many minutes of foreplay or touching certain areas,and its dull and boring.People if you want the spark back just mix it up,try new things and above all else have fun its a marathon not a sprint.The end goal is not to climax,its to feel good and make your partner feel good.

 

There's a common thread of underling boredom that affects most relationships at one time or another, an intuitive partner is just one of the necessities for making changes.When I was experiencing it I was that lover who had the foresight to see it coming, however communicating these feelings to your spouse can be a proverbial mine field if your not careful. If the general attitude of sexuality is minimized to nothing more then an fun activity that's fine when your still "fucking around" but carry that mentality into a relationship it's where comfort is a breeding ground for contempt. Where now that we're married or in a long term relationship we can fool around whenever which translates to some that casually postponing it occasionally is dealt with the comfort of knowing we can "catch up" later in the week. To many times that pattern turns into weeks and months of barely any intimate time with the one another holding out, this is a warning sign that many ignore until it's too late which leads to explosive arguments and cheating.

Truth be told love may be the foundation of a great relationship, but sex is a golden thread that holds it all together without it everything falls apart and the justification of it being "not so important" is where it all starts. As adults sex is our "playtime" just like when we were children and notice how a child feels when it rains for days and days without being able to get out and play or even the children in this generation who spend too much time inside on computers. Playtime sparks the imagination and creativity to express it while the physical nature makes us feel alive and vital, take that away long enough and you end up with a sickly, unproductive and overweight child. As adults it's not much different when it comes to sex with the exception that sex in a relationship reinforces feelings of self worth, mutual love, affection and an ongoing commitment to the health of each other's well being. Any diversion from these facts and you have a sickness that will either be tolerated or cured, this is why sex must be given it's rightful place in the relationship!

 

Got to agree bro,but everyone has the power to change the cycle.Never sit complaining about a sexless marriage when you have the power to change it all.

 

In the instance of my marriage, she became mentally unstable - bipolar.

Also I've heard the adage that a young woman wants attention but a mature woman wants respect. With that in mind, perhaps the female feels she's just a fuck toy neither loved nor respected. Given human nature, I could see why a woman would loose interest in sex.

 

I was that woman for a while. With me it was just boredom. I wanted sex, I just didn't want the sex that was available to me at the time. Unfortunately, I wasn't astute enough to communicate that to my husband. It wasn't until we were divorced that I felt free to let my freak flag fly.

 

Anal sex is answer

 

I am not sure anybody who has had good sex dislikes sex but some people do get out of the habit!!

Use it or lose it!!

Thinskin

 

Some women loose interest after having children. Some women just don't care about sex. Some women just get tired of the same old cock every time.

 

I've found one thing is one must simply be there in the relationship. If one is buzzed all the time, out all the time, and simply not around to have some nice conversation about things she (we) both enjoy, then sex is almost history. However if one holds off on the first two, then seems sex is more back on track and as in the vid above said, she (we) both really enjoy the wild time!

 

I love sex. In my case it is the hubby that has lost interest. I have tried to spice it up, and let me say that I'm very adventurous so open to anything and he knows this bc we have had our wild moments. I never wanted to lose that so I've worked hard to try to keep that excitement and thrill and passion in our sex life. He rejects me more than we have sex. It hurts. When a woman is kissing on you, rubbing on you, about to suck your cock and you say no maybe tomorrow - there's a problem. Needless to say it works both ways.

 

I'd like to pound your wife

 

Well, I have offered her every bit of kinky to spontaneous sex to get out of routine. We had a threesome MFM. She enjoyed twice but no more. Offered her solo fuck with her choosing also female but not interested. Just likes a quick fuck and roll off. Out of options. 35 yrs married

 

Maybe they dont have good sex

 

I'm 77and my wife is 74 and we have been happily married for 49 years and she still does a great job of massaging my cock with her pussy

 

Unfortunately brother it's a lot harder when your need for sex, the sensual touch and a feeling of wanted is tested against your undying love of another being. A level of disdain in not being able to express the truth over some watered down plea for touching as if you mattered, while doing all you can to alleviate all the chores and mundane tasks and not have it reciprocated sexually. I took mistresses that my wife allowed three times as a way of what she called "keeping me happy" in hindsight I asked for counselling, she decided to take the path of least resistance and let me stray. When she realized what she had done the remote chance of me "loving another" crossed her Catholic virgin mind and sex became exciting initiated more by her for the next few months. Like Pavlov's dog when the cold sexual silence reoccurred I took a mistress and another life which by "getting caught" meant 3 more months of appreciative sex when believe or not it have been my wish to have it all at home without the mistresses! But each one knew I was married and that I had no intention of love, just sex and a little romance.

 

I can't help you there.
I never met a woman who didn't like good sex. Actually, I haven't met a woman that didn't like sex with me, so I don't really have any idea what you're talking about.